Out!
I'm out. Out, out, out, OUT to my mother! It was through no courage of my own. After a week, in which I completely failed femininity, she cornered me and demanded to know what was going on. So I explained the best I could. She's not on board with pronouns or calling me anything else but her daughter, and the idea of being trans is completely alien to her, but other than that she was more relieved to just know. Which is fair. And the forms of address are a battle I'm not interested in fighting now. I'm also just relieved that she knows. She ended the conversation with, "Well, I wanted to go to the mall with you to get you nicer clothes. I guess let's see what's there in menswear." And that's about 500% better outcome than I had ever hoped for!
You must feal light like a feather. I can only try to imagine what weight is off your shoulders. And I feel you must be beyond relieved. I am really happy for you!!
I am absolutely elated! Didn't even dream for acceptance. And she really took me shopping for menswear as she said, which was a whole other level of gender euphoria!
Some things like using other pronouns take time maybe. But it looks like she accepted the transgender thing in general and thats a good start i guess
Oh absolutely! I have no problem with her using whatever for now. I'm more than happy that we still have a relationship and I still have a mother.
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